Manic Monday - Friend

FRIENDS come in all sizes, shapes and colors. They come in different age groups, cultures and religions as well. Some of our friends may even be family members! My closest friend on this earth is my cousin. I trust her with my closest guarded secrets, knowing that she would never betray my trust. I am so blessed to have her in my life! We came so close to losing one another in the "busyness" and confusion of daily living. But we were reunited with a bond even closer than we enjoyed when we were younger, brought about by lessons learned in a harsh reality.

I'm fortunate in that my daughters are my friends. Some of our best times have been weekends away together, doing "girlie" stuff and just being silly - having fun; forming memories for quiet moments alone in which to reminisce and wonder at the women they have become.

And yes, my "hubman" is my friend, in the truest sense. He chose me to be his life's partner which requires a huge amount of trust and faith. He knows that I did not take my vows lightly and will be by his side through thick and thin, 'til death do us part. It's not been easy - not for a moment! But the payoff is being able to sit side by side on a Sunday afternoon, sharing a quiet moment together, watching a sappy movie and enjoying it tremendously! I've strained his limits at times as has he, but friends don't walk away from each other. You get out of a relationship what you're willing to put into it. That goes for spouses, as well!

Bloggers - a special breed of friend! We make new friends daily. We read each other's deepest thoughts, silliest jokes, and share greatest hopes and dreams. The sense of community never fails to astound me, and how quickly these "comments" of ours can turn to true friendships is simply amazing!!!

Friends don't necessarily come from the same roots or backgrounds, but come willingly together to share in a stew: one brings carrots, one brings potatoes, another onions, yet another seasons the whole lot! A wise man tastes and sees that it is good.

Thanks to dear Morgen, and Manic Monday, for the opportunity to write about friends!!! Visit his site to read more...